Not all who wander are lost, but sometimes they really are. You may think you are walking toward the main town square, but no towers appear, and more and more cars are going in your direction, and then there is an actual directional sign for cars, something you never noticed in the pedestrian-intensive city center. Mer had said you could not navigate by towers in a city (because the houses get in the way). But, if you turn around and look, far away on the horizon, looking especially small, would be those towers you can’t navigate by. You would then sigh, and trudge back along the same road you had been walking along for the last fifteen minutes while your helpmate chuckles for a ways.

Today was my first day to “be in charge”; Mer had decided what we were doing for the first week, and I got the second week. I decided to stay in Bruges and to try to see some things we had not done yet.

We started the day off taking a short boat tour of some of the canals. I liked our captain – he was warm, but for the most part, the tour is less about the captain’s commentary than about seeing Bruges from another angle. I did learn that the oldest bridge in the city (still in use) is from the 1200’s.

We then walked to the main square to the Historium. The Historium is a cross between a Disney display and a history museum. There is a film that you follow through seven different rooms that recreate Bruges on a day in 1435. It uses the film, which uses computers to create the town in the background, and real actors to tell the story of an errand boy of seventeen running around the town trying to find an escaped bird and a painting model. Some of the rooms pipe in smells and use lighting to recreate lightning. They even have it snow in one room. Mer and I had our tour all to ourselves, which was great. We really liked it. The ticket also included access to the view-terrace over the town square, and some short history write-ups on the development of Bruges. We ended the tour with an eight-minute-long VR film showing us on a boat taking cargo into Bruges. I may have knocked my body into my booth wall once when the narrator told me to look left. I did not see a wall there….

After lunch, we went to the “Battle for the North Sea” exhibit next to the Historium. I thought it was going to be about the sea battles of WW II, but it was about the German Bruges-based U-boat fleet, which I had not even known existed. It presented the German side of things on one side of the hall, and the British response down the other side. In the middle was an astonishingly small outline of an actual U-boat model 1. It was maybe only twelve feet wide at the widest.

The German program was fairly successful, in that the English never found a good answer for the U-boat problem. The 90-some U-boats launched from Bruges sank over 2,500 ships, but only 2 out of 5 U-boat sailors survived the war.

The British tried a late-war assault on the canal where the submarines came from, and they were able to deliberately sink three ships in or near the canal, but the subs were still able to get out at high tide. Of the eight hundred men who were in the attack for the British, about six hundred were wounded or killed. The navy still somehow published that the attack was a complete success. It did manage to boost British morale.

There was a display of the eleven Victoria Cross medals (the highest British military honor) handed out after the battle, with a short write-up of each recipient. Many of the men had died in the attack, and at least two more would die within two years from diseases (after the war). It was a very costly battle for the English.

The exhibit was excellent, and was small enough to be seen entirely in a little over an hour. I had no idea that there was a widespread submarine program in WW I, so the information in the exhibit was all new to me.

We then headed back to the room for a small rest – it really does seem to help out on these eighty-degree days. I then took Meredith to the north section of the old town, to find a church that had a small museum with religious art in it. We found it, but I was surprised that the church itself was full of modern sculpture. It was not bad, but it was not what I’d expected. We wandered around for a few minutes, then left, and I expressed my confusion on the art inside. Mer asked me for the address of the church, so I looked at it – it was at 79, and we were at 72. Somehow, there were two churches with art exhibits more or less on the same block. So, of course, when we got to the church I was looking for, it was 4:30 and they had just closed.

We headed back south, and stumbled across a huge, squat, fortress-like church – St. Giles. The door was open, so we headed in, and found an exhibit on lace (a Belgian specialty) used for the clergy. The church itself, with parts dating from around 1300, was interesting to look at, and there was actually a small printed guide in English to help explain what I was looking at. It was quite thoughtful, and helped in some way make up for the other closed church.

Then we got lost. In my mind, I had crossed a canal, but we had actually only come up to it. Since I had not crossed it, when I headed away from the canal, I was also heading away from the center of town. Mer had mentioned something at the outset about being turned around, but happily, I knew exactly where we were….

Once we actually found the main squares again, we grabbed supper. On the way back to the B and B, we found an open chocolate shop, so we stopped in and bought some filled chocolates, which we ate in the room.  Oh – and the fish market square where there was a concert last night was hosting salsa dancing tonight. I really like this town.

The chocolates were good, but not the amazing I had hoped they would be. For ease, I had bought a pre-packaged set of chocolates. I think we would have had more flavorful success if we had picked them out ourselves. Maybe we’ll find this success when we visit Brussels in a few days.

My first day had a few frustrations, but nothing too bad. We got back to the room a tad early (about 7:00), but it will be good to get a longer sleep tonight before I have to drive two hours to Dinant tomorrow.

Bruges is a delightful city. We had breakfast and then headed out into one of the cutest old towns I have ever seen in Europe. The town has multiple canals, several huge church or civic towers, lively squares, and rows of neat Flemish homes stretching to a still-surviving moat around the whole center, complete with old-style windmills. Coochy-coo.

In cities and towns like these, half the fun is seeing the town. You can pick almost any street and find something worth seeing, even if it’s a residential area. We did actually go see some sights, but there was no real rushing of the journey.

The first stop was the Church of Our Lady, complete with a huge tower next to it – the largest brick tower in the low countries, in fact, at 379 feet tall. Sadly, it is not open to the public. But the church is, and is also undergoing restoration, so we got to see two people actually working on fine detail restoration on one wall. There were signs not to disturb them, so we could not ask any questions, but I had never seen this kind of repair work going on. It seemed slow and detailed.

The church is quite beautiful itself, including statues of all the apostles and Jesus. Most of the art of the church is kept in the back half, behind the altar, where you pay a small fee to see it. It includes some decorated brick graves from the fourteenth century, some recently revealed frescoes on the ceiling, a couple of bronze royal tombs, a huge altarpiece, and more. The most important piece of art is a Michelangelo sculpture of Mary with Jesus on her lap. They both look slightly sad, and it is highly detailed, as is all the Michelangelo work I have seen. As with all Christian art, I loved being able to tell what was going on in the paintings or sculptures.

From the church, we went to Bruges’ Begijnhof (the houses where single women could serve). The complex was smaller than Ghent’s, but this one is still somewhat active as a religious space – there are several Benedictine nuns who live here and still worship in the church. We got there in time to hear them sing noontime prayers. After the prayers, we went and toured a model of a typical house, and it seemed very comfortable, with a kitchen, dining room, sitting room, private courtyard, and bedroom. Our guide in Ghent had indicated that the women joining these communities tended to have some money, and I guess they were used to some space.

Near the Beginhof is a large park next to a canal, and we strolled through that. At multiple areas around Bruges, the city is putting finishing touches on huge sculptures around town, many of which you can walk on or in. We toured one floating on the canal – it was a three-story wooden structure with grand views of the park area.

After seeing much of the park, we walked for about an hour through several squares to get to a row of restaurants on a slower-paced street, where we ate lunch. Several of the squares have impressive buildings on all fours sides, with towers or decorations or statues or monuments. These tended to be fairly crowded, but as we found out later in the day, most people are day-trippers. By 8:00, most of these same squares are much quieter (except for the fish market square, where a German or Flemish band was covering “Born to Be Wild” to an enthusiastic crowd of all ages),

After lunch, we took an hour rest back at the B and B – useful for beating out the unusually hot weather we had today (mid-eighties). Happily, with a breeze and lots of tree or building shade, the heat has not been an issue.

After our siesta, we went back to the main square, but missed the bell tower climb, which closed at 5:00. So we took a Rick Steves guided walk from the main square, through a neighborhood, out to the canal/moat at the edge of the old town. It had trees and benches and a biking path (of course – it is Belgium), and several windmills. We took a break there to enjoy the place before walking south on the path to enter the old town again from a different place.

We finished the day with dinner and ice cream, in two different locations, seeing more of the town along the way. Bruges had some tourist-hype around it online and in our tour book, and it did not disappoint.

We bid farewell to our wonderful hotel in Ghent and splurged on a twenty-euro taxi to take us across town to pick up our rental car. We are usually adventurous enough to use public transportation, but we had luggage to deal with, and about a mile of walking to do even with using the tram. Sometimes money buys you time and ease, so we used a cab. After a few minutes with a very pleasant car rental agent, we were on our way north to Ypres and the Flanders Fields area, in the heart of a major World War 1 front line.

While Ghent negotiated a peaceful occupation with the Germans and, as such, the town survived intact, the town of Ypres (“Ieper” in Flemish) was right on the stalled front line of the war for four years and was completely destroyed. Amazingly, the people of Ypres rebuilt the town according to the original plan, including rebuilding the massive town hall, Cloth Hall, and the enormous nearby cathedral. Cloth Hall now houses the tourist information office, and a large museum dedicated to WWI, focusing on the Flanders Fields area. We were helped in our efforts to see the museum by a kind man who informed us that where we had parked was a no-parking zone in half an hour. The town was setting up a community viewing area for the Belgium-England World Cup game that evening, and we were parked there. We were very grateful for his letting us know and ended up finding street parking before going to the museum.

The museum was one of the best museums I have ever been in. It was well laid out, with artifacts from the war, video recreations of actors telling individual stories, maps, well-presented written information, and special bracelet-activated kiosks that tried to find people like you from the war to tell their stories. That proved a little tricky to do for a forty-seven-year-old man from the US, but I still liked the idea of personalizing the experience for each visitor.

The museum presented things mostly in chronological order, with some groupings of topics (like trench warfare, weapons and uniforms, medical care, and so on). It started with the pre-war issues of the countries involved, which mainly seemed to boil down to intense nationalism (we saw children’s games where you were to shoot the Hun in the butt), international stress of expanding colonies world-wide, and an arms race as armies got bigger and better equipped.

Except the poor Belgian army. They were supposed to be neutral in Europe, and had an army of mostly volunteers equipped with outdated gear. The saw what was going on around them, and just deployed their army to defensive positions only four days before Germany invaded. They were quickly overwhelmed, although they did have some success with newer weapons against older strategies – a small bicycle machine-gun unit held off an elite cavalry unit from Germany. France’s war plan had not anticipated Germany invading Belgium (a mistake they would make again in twenty years for WW II), and so it took them two weeks to deploy, along with the English. As such, Germany advanced quickly across much of Belgium, although not so quickly as they had planned. Once the Belgians deliberately flooded parts of northern Belgium as a defensive measure, and once the French and English got deployed, the war settled into trench warfare for four more years, centered in this area around Ypres.

The museum did a great job of capturing the horror of the war, showing pictures of the devastation. Many trench areas were barren wastelands of mud with a few stumps scattered in amongst craters from shells. Men had to lay down wooden planks to walk on because the mud was everywhere. The Germans tended to build shallow concrete bunkers in which to sleep and hide during shelling attacks, while the British dug tunnels twenty-five feet or more underground. In either case, the men slept packed together. The trenches were rat-infested and usually had some water in the bottom, so that it was hard to stay dry. Boredom for the men at the front was an issue, and officers would order occasional raids just to keep morale up, despite heavy casualties incurred during these raids. It was a miserable existence.

All in all, the museum was fantastic, and I was sad we only had time (three hours) to do the main museum. We left off the archaeology museum and climbing the Cloth Hall bell tower, largely because our parking meter was up. This is one time when the town would have been wise to have free parking, since we would have stayed longer and spent money on supper.

Leaving Ypres did give us time to visit a few other places nearby. We went to the town of Zonnebeke, which is home to the Passchendaele Museum and Memorial Gardens. Passchendaele is the name of a nearby town, but the whole region was the site of a massive British offensive that failed in its objectives. It was supposed to be a breakthrough battle to capture the coastal German submarine ports, but instead got mired down and took three months. The British and German casualty numbers are disputed, but seem to be about 250,000 dead and wounded on each side (500,000 total).

The museum there is supposed to give an idea of trench life, but we did not get to see it. We got to Zonnebeke close to 4:00 without having eaten, so we grabbed a picnic lunch and then ate near the museum, which was in a lovely park. By the time we were finished, it was almost 5:00, and the museum closed at 6:00. So, we decided instead to visit the memorial gardens. In the gardens, seven nations – Australia, the United States, the United Kingdom, New Zealand, Canada, Germany, and Belgium – designed gardens from 2014-2018 to commemorate the one hundredth anniversary of the war. Each garden was filled with items of symbolic meaning – the US showed pictures of Belgians on planks of food crates (we sent food to Belgium), Germany had a stone with a hole in it to represent the unknown number of casualties they had, Australia had plants from all over the country, and so on. It was peaceful, and we had the gardens to ourselves, so it was a good compromise on having to skip the museum.

From there. we moved on to the United Kingdom cemetery of Tyne Cot, which is the largest UK war cemetery anywhere in the world, with about twelve thousand soldiers buried there. Over eight thousand of those buried there were identified only as “A soldier of the Great War, known to God,” which is sobering. I’m guessing they did not yet use dog tags for identification, but I do not know. The cemetery was immaculate, with roses planted by the headstones, and a long wall across the back listed by regiment the names of the men who never came home but whose bodies were never found.  The list was only of those who went missing during the last year of the war (those who did so earlier are listed elsewhere), and there were still over 34,000 names. As you approach the visitor center, there is a quiet recording of a woman saying the names of each of the dead men. All of this in the middle of quiet farm land. It was very moving.

The British attach great emotional investment to WW I sites like these. We ran into multiple school groups of British children, both at the Flanders Fields museum and at Tyne Cot. There were multiple little crosses put at various headstones which had messages from children written on them, thanking these soldiers who have been dead for over one hundred years for the sacrifice they made. It was good to see that.

We ended our tour of the Ypres area by driving a few miles to Langemark, to the German cemetery. Meredith teaches All Quiet on the Western Front, a WW I novel told from the German point of view, and the protagonist, Paul, says he was stationed near Langemark, so Mer wanted to see it. The German cemetery is subdued, with low, dark headstones. The cemetery holds over 44,000 German dead. Over 25,000 of those are in a mass grave in the center, and all of the “individual” graves hold at least four men. Some hold as many as forty.

We ended a long day by driving the hour or so to Bruges. It took several tries to get into the city – we kept taking wrong turns, even with a GPS, and we had trouble finding the parking garage for our B and B. It was a bit frustrating, especially when I was as tired as I was, but in light of what we had seen that day, I tried to keep it in perspective. We ate a very late supper (10:00), and went to bed directly after.

In our travels, we have seen WW I sites now in Belgium, France, and Slovenia. It was a terrible war, but I am grateful that the regions most affected by the violence remember and work to make sure it does not happen again. As WW II showed, sometimes they fail, but they keep trying.

Yesterday was not a day of near-misses and wrong directions. It was a scouting day! We fit in a long and successful day of touring today, from about 9:00 am to about 10:30 pm. We have seen Ghent. Phew.

We started by catching the correct bus heading east out of the city center, and then walking a mile or so to our destination – the Groot Begijnhof. Insert your “I am Groot” joke here. Begijnhofs were Belgian and near-Belgium institutions where widowed and single women could go to live in community, but without taking full convent orders. They vowed obedience and chastity, but then were allowed to work and live by themselves in the community.  Ghent had three of these places in the city, and the Groot Begijnhof was the largest and newest of them, being completed in the 1870s.

I had no idea a place like this existed, and it was all very peaceful with harmonious brick buildings. We wandered around the walled-in compound, which is based around a huge church (which was sadly closed to the public). The current-day community is made up of anyone who buys a ninety-nine-year lease on a home, but it is still really quiet. Owners are not allowed to change much of anything, since it is a World Heritage Site. It is made up of about eighty homes, the church, and a few other buildings, all enclosed in a brick wall. They even had three cows grazing in a field behind the church, and this on the edge of a city of 250,000 people.

Back in town, we took our one-day-delayed boat ride, which was free on our Ghent City Card. We have really made out on those cards, spending seventy euros to get into over one hundred euros’ worth of attractions, not including multiple trips on the trams and buses. The boat trip was about forty minutes long, and took us along the main strip of the old river harbor, turning at the main bridge (St. Michael’s Bridge), before heading all the way up an old canal to where it now terminates at a road. We had commentary provided by the boat’s captain, who spoke in English, French, and German. He was a little hard to understand over the PA system, but that is often the case with PA systems. He told us about some of the buildings in town and a little history, but the real enjoyment was in seeing the town from the perspective of the river and canal.

Having crossed off yesterday’s events by noon today, we hopped on a tram heading northwest out of the city, getting off at the Dr. Guislain Museum, a museum in a former psychiatric institution, dedicated to the history of the treatment of the mentally ill, with a focus on Dr. Guislain, who revolutionized the treatment of the mentally ill in the 1800s, and right here in Ghent. The museum also house three art collections – one by trained artists who spent time in mental institutions talking to patients, one by self-trained artists, and one by patients themselves.

The history part of the museum was both fascinating and sad. It covered the treatment of the mad from medieval times when they would bore holes in the head to release the bad spirits, up to today with medication and MRI machines. In between, the treatment of the ill took various steps, but really took a leap with Dr. Guislain’s reforms in the 1850s, when he treated the mentally ill as ill and treatable. He built open and safe spaces for the patients, required good food to be served, and required staff to treat the patients with respect, including requiring them not to gossip about patients outside the institution. He helped write laws on mental health that were in effect until 1991. Dr, Guislain teamed with the religious orders of the Catholic Church because he thought the religious men helped calm the patients, and they were a much cheaper way to staff the hospital, when compared to secular nurses and caregivers.

The art exhibits from the patients were interesting, and several were excellent. There was a painter of still life works that focused on everyday objects like irons and phones that Mer and I both liked very much. The works from the trained artists were usually thought-provoking, although some were obscure or pretentious. The works of the untrained artists were across the board, with some being childlike to some being very advanced. It was not clear to me how many artists were ill and how many were not, and I think that was the point – that the art stands apart from the mental health state of the artist; the ill can and do produce good art.

That got us back into town around 4:00, looking for supper in a culture that usually starts to think about supper around 8:00. We eventually found a restaurant that was open and serving on the large square where we ate French fries a couple of days ago. We passed a very pleasant hour eating and people=watching.

Mer had a plan for us to do something right at 7:00, so we went back to the room to rest up for about thirty minutes. We walked over to the tourist information office across from the castle, but it was closed. We hung out outside the door until Mieke (“mee-ka”) walked up and introduced herself. She is the mother of four and grandmother of six, lives on a houseboat on the town’s bigger river (the Scheldt), is from Ghent, spent a year abroad in California, and happens to be a tour guide. She was there to take us on a private three-hour tour of Ghent.

Mieke took us all around old Ghent, starting at the castle. We walked down old medieval lanes that we had not yet seen, and which now make up a trendy neighborhood near the castle. She showed us what used to be a monastery where the monks healed people, and then round again to the River Leie harbor area, where she told us about how the shipping guilds used to fleece money from traders by requiring them to transfer the cargo to Ghent ships for a half-mile section of river, pay a toll, sell twenty-five percent of the cargo at Ghent rates, and then pay to transfer the cargo back to the original ships. It made Ghent really wealthy, along with the money that came pouring in from the cloth trade, first from wool and then later from cotton.

We crossed St, Michael’s Bridge and heard about the two major churches in the old town and the bell tower, which was deliberately built to be taller than the church steeples. She told us that the people of Ghent hated the new covered square space in front of city hall because they thought it looked like a sheep barn, but they have come around to liking it. We hiked out to the Scheldt River, and Mieke took us to an old ruined abbey. She is a volunteer at the abbey once a week to tell people about it, so she had a key, so we got to wander the abbey grounds by ourselves. It is much in ruin because most of the stone was carried away by the Spanish in the 1500s to build a fort nearby, but the old church still stands and is very impressive. It is still used for concerts, and has the tombstone of the older of the Van Eyck brothers (the painters of Ghent’s famous altarpiece) housed there.

Mieke took us back into town, showing us a trendy food court that is housed in what used to be a large church, and dropped us off in the same square where we had eaten supper. Mer and I love local guides, and the evening had been informative and gotten us to several new-to-us places.

Long day, but worth it. We feel as if we have a pretty good sense of Ghent, and since the festival season starts this coming weekend, we feel pretty good about getting out of town. We head out for Bruges via Flanders Fields tomorrow.

When you travel, things do not always go according to plan. Sometimes you leave a museum to go back home, and twenty minutes later, you find yourself back at the museum. Sometimes your guidebook tells you to get on a bus going away from your destination. Sometimes the boats stop running at 6:00, even with tons of daylight left. For travel to be a success, you need to roll with these sorts of things and not stress about them. Mer always says that most things are either a good experience or a good story. So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past. At least as long as the boats are running.

We got launched from our particular berth around 9:30, and we took the tram back out to the train station. From there, we walked into Cidadel Park, which is a park I had seen on my map of Ghent and one that I wanted to see. So that was a happy bonus. We walked through the very pretty park, which had plenty of flowers, some statues, tons of trees, a couple of fountains, and an artificially-augmented hill – the “stones” jutting from the hill were made of concrete. Our ultimate destination was on the far side of the park – the Fine Arts Museum.

We got in for free on our ever-handy three-day Gent City Card (which gives us free transportation as well as various free entries around town). We almost had the museum to ourselves – most rooms either had no one in them or only  one other couple. We walked in to the galleries and were immediately drawn to a large room decorated with wild and fantastical “plants” and “animals.” It was very colorful, and chaotic, but we both liked it. We would have gone there anyway, but what drew us was a small group of musicians and singers practicing modern pieces, which they continued to do the whole time we were in the museum. It lent a mystical quality to the morning.

Meredith loved the layout of the place. There were arrows and numbered rooms that led you through the exhibits. In general, the rooms were laid out chronologically, which is very helpful to people like me, who can see development in art over time if spoon-fed it. Most of the museum’s works were either excellent works by minor artists or lesser-known works of major artists. It did have two very trippy-looking paintings by Bosch, who painted around 1500 but had a style that looked as if it were from the 1930s. Dali could have painted these. It blows my mind every time I see a Bosch painting (or one attributed to him).

There were really good works of religious art, including a small room dedicated to religious modern art. My favorite work in the collection was one where Jesus is being mocked by four guards while two of them pry the crown of thorns down onto the head of Jesus. The are all looking at Jesus and laughing, but Jesus is looking slightly sad and is staring directly out of the frame at us, the viewers. It wasn’t clear if he was looking at us in an accusing way or in an “I’m doing this for you” way, or both. It was quite moving. It was done by the Flemish painter, Jan Janssen, who was heavily influenced by Caravaggio, around 1647.

Many of the rooms mixed old and new, which Meredith pointed out was the same as in the Design Museum yesterday. In a room of paintings from 1500, the museum would show a few modern paintings. In the modern works rooms, they would have objects from 1600. It was a thoughtful way to keep linking the artworks.

We saw the entire museum that was open; several spaces were closed, as the museum was between exhibitions. We got to see two Rodin sculptures, the Bosch paintings, Magritte, Brueghel, Rubens, and other famous artists, as well as many good “unknown masters” and some lesser-known painters. We saw everything in about two and a half hours,

Mer wanted to go back into town for lunch, so we left the museum and walked back through the park. Mer let me scamper up the hilly area, and then back down on the other side. We kept walking past places we recognized, and then slowly we began to realize we had not seen that pond on the way in. Or that busy street. Or that museum up ahead…wait a minute….

We had gone straight when we should have turned right at an intersection, and the walkway had taken us right back to the Fine Arts Museum. So we got to see pretty much all of Cidadel Park. Roll with it. Keep walking and laughing. We got back to the tram station and back into town around 2:00 for a nice lunch in an enclosed courtyard of a small restaurant.

After lunch, we took about a half-hour rest stop at the hotel. Part of traveling at forty-five years old and up is managing backs and knees. Then it was off to a buzzer-beater tour of a small museum on ordinary family life in Belgium over the last one hundred years or so. We got into the museum at almost 4:30, and it closed at 5:00, so we did not read a lot of the placards. The exhibit was quaint, showing various aspects of life as if it were a calendar. There was birth and death, childhood and teen years, marriage and older life. They had artifacts in each room to go along with the theme: the birth years had strollers and such, the teen room had album covers and Walkmans and older video games, and so on. We really liked the school room and the wedding room – both had pictures from across the century, and we got a kick out of guessing the years based on the fashions. We were usually right, but there were some surprises – the 1990 school photo looked to me as if it were from 2000, so I was wrong there.

Back to the hotel to reorganize, and then back out to the main square to catch a bus out to a far-flung site. Our guide book said to take a certain bus, so we jumped on it. Mer asked the driver at the next stop if we were on the right bus. We were not – in fact, we were going the wrong way. Somehow, inexplicably, Rick Steves had let us down. We got back on the other bus going the other way, and got back to the main square, where we waited for another bus that did not come for ten or fifteen minutes, at which point Mer decided to kick over to Plan B – boats.

There are several companies that ply the river by prying money out of your hand, and it looks very pleasant. We walked over to the main bridge to find one boat company closed up. We checked with the second company and their last boat went out at 6:00; it was 6:30. Tomorrow, then. Go with the flow.

Mer had a nearby restaurant picked out, but I did not like the food choices, since they were mostly fish and steaks. That meant the choice fell to me, so we found an Italian place where we could sit outside and Mer could speak Italian to the staff. It was  a good pick. We finished the meal with a waffle from a nearby stand, completing the Belgian trifecta – waffles, chocolate, and fries.

So, it was an unplanned early evening back at the hotel, getting in around 8:00. Mer did some research on the buses for tomorrow, so everything should go according to plan. Unless it doesn’t. Either way, we are on vacation in Belgium with each other. That plan always works.

When we tour Europe, one of the great challenges is staying fed. By this, I don’t mean we don’t get food – we always eat lots on these trips. It’s more that we can’t seem to get the day to work out right so that we eat meals at normal times. Tours and sightseeing do not always line up in neat patterns like that. So today, for instance, we ate breakfast first thing. Normal. Then we did some things (descriptions coming) such that we could have eaten just before noon, only three hours after a fairly large breakfast, or, we could tour on and eat when we could (probably 2:00). We chose the latter. We then snacked around 5:00 because we could and wanted to, but then that threw off the need for supper, which we still ate at 7:00 so that we would not be hungry later on. Granted, it is not a terrible problem to have; it just seems to pop up on every European tour we do at some point.

The touring started off with an interesting visit to Design Museum Gent. Belgians love design, even for ordinary objects, and that has been borne up in this university town. There are several museums, many art shops, bookstores on art and design, and stores selling high-end (and well-designed) household goods. The Design Museum itself was interesting, with the collection housed in an old wooden house surrounding a new steel-and-glass structure, so that you had the contrasts of the dark wooded house and the airy glass section.

The main focus of the exhibit today was on a young designer named Baas. He caught the design world’s attention with his senior work in university, when he took wooden furniture, burned it, and the coated it with lacquer to make it strong enough to be used again. There were several pieces from the “Smoke” series on display, and I was not sure about them. Interesting idea, but I was not sure that I liked it as design or art. They were followed by several movies of Baas himself in a room doing various things (like tossing in bed while real sheep wandered about). They were clever and interesting and even thought-provoking, but they seemed to me to be all art and no design (going by my own rule of thumb that design has some practical aspect to it, whereas art does not need to be practical at all). Still wasn’t sure about Baas.

Then he pulled it out for me, getting both thoughtful and whimsical. We encountered several pieces of furniture cast out of bronze that had been based on quick and imaginative sketches Baas came up with. He was trying to create fantastical objects that seemed to defy gravity. I liked them.

Baas has a lot of work that focuses on or brings in an element of time. He had several functional clocks on display where the clock faces were films of people drawing and then erasing the hands of the clock, and then drawing them again the next minute. He really filmed the people (including himself) doing this for twelve hours so that the clocks would really tell time. Two of the clocks even had videos of bells hanging above the heads of the hands-keepers, and when it got to the top of the hour, the person would reach up and hit the bell the requisite number of times. Baas even had a film from shot from above showing two people sweeping two lines of garbage and sand around in the form of hands on a clock, so that it really functioned as well.

The next room was really fun. There were a bunch of working fans that looked as if they had been sculpted out of colorful clay. Then, Baas collaborated with an artist to make a claymation film of the fans being made as a fiftieth anniversary film. The work was displayed in 2006, so the film had a date of 2056. It was pretty funny.

Then, Baas had an entire room filled with a glitzy, over-the-top display for five simple chairs. He had entered the display in a design show in Milan, and he thought the competition had become all about getting the most social media hits. So, he decided to poke fun at things by presenting his chairs as the center of a circus, with Baas himself playing a carnival barker. It was glitzy and loud and fun, and the gently mocking presentation won Baas best-in-show that year.

So, in the end, I liked Bass’ work. I think he would either be a really fun guy to hang out with (which is what I hope), or he would be really pretentious.

The museum had two other floors of various displays on design, and some were quite eye-catching, while a few were merely eye-rolling. The entire museum took about two hours, which is an excellent size for a museum. Oh – one quirky thing I loved. One room had an elaborate carved wooden chandelier. On the chandelier was a carved boat. Someone, and I really hope it was a curator, put a Playmobil pirate in the boat. That made me smile broadly.

After seeing a pirate, it was only right that we storm a castle. Ghent’s castle is imposing, which was the idea. It was built in the late 1100s as a display of power to the independent townspeople of Ghent. It later became the home of the local counts and justice system, and eventually, by the late 1800s, had become a textile mill. It got restored in the late 1800s and early 1900s, and is now a great tourist attraction. Meredith really loved it since the tour was well laid out with arrows, and numbers marked each place you were supposed to go. That way, Mer could be sure she saw everything.

The castle keep and tower offered good views of Ghent, although Mer complained that the defensive shutters in the ramparts were obstructing views for the under-six-foot crowd. I pointed out that the designers were probably not thinking of tourism and views. Nothing too historical happened in the castle (in a world-history sense), and other castles are bigger or better situated for views, but it was fun to wander around inside the place.

After a quick lunch at 2:00, we ended our touring for the day with the walk in Rick Steve’s guide book. Since we are thorough people when it comes to things like this, it took us about four hours to do the walk, which did include a chocolate break and a fries break (two things for which Belgium is known). We did the whole walk, but a few highlights stood out.

We went into the Church of St. Nicholas, which is under renovation in the front half (entrance) of the church. This church is also airy and very tall inside. The church organist was practicing while we were there, so that added to the atmosphere. There was also an exhibit of photographs around the whole church showcasing bald women, mostly women who had lost their hair to chemo.

We next toured the town bell tower. We got to see the drum that ran the bells in action (it activates every quarter hour). Then, Mer, of course, went out on the narrow ledge at the top of the tower, which I passed on. Instead, I read about the history of the biggest bell in the tower, which has been cast three times – once to be replaced, and once because the second one broke (although after a hundred years, it was finally repaired years in 2006). We finished up with a video on the unexpectedly complex manufacturing process for casting large bells; it is dozens of steps over several weeks. I had no idea, and given the technology used now, this is not how it has always been done.

The rest of the walk was around town, including taking us to a square we had not been to before, and which happily sold fries that were recommended in our guide book. The tour finished back near the castle, so we headed back home to rest for a bit before setting out for supper and a fairly early evening back at the hotel, happily well fed.

Sometimes you are unavoidably confronted with your own middle age. As we were walking through the amazing center of Ghent, a store window caught my eye. I made a little noise of delight and trotted across the street. I was staring intently and happily at the window when Meredith came up behind me, saying, “Husband…” in a tone that meant something, but I was not sure why. I said, “Yes?” and was asked what I was looking at. I told here I was admiring the two models of the P-51 Mustang airplanes in the window, which she pointed out were right next to (and I do mean right next to) the large display of black and white postcards of nude women. I never noticed.

This morning, we took the train from Paris to Brussels, which takes about eighty minutes. We then transferred to a train to Ghent, which took about twenty-five minutes. During that time, a polite Belgian asked us where we were from, and so we started talking. From what I gathered though his good, but heavily accented, English, he has started his own bank with his own currency that would be legal tender anywhere, allowing for better exchange of goods and (more importantly to him) ideas and understanding. He gave me a one euro (?) dollar (?) mark (?) bill. He was very insistent that we should love ourselves and then everyone else, and that being joyful was the key to good health. He then helped Mer get her luggage off the train. A nice man, with an enormous dream.

We took a tram from the train station to the historic center of Ghent, and then found our hotel, which is a converted monastery; the room that Meredith booked for us is really large and really nice. I told Mer there must be some mistake, since I usually am the one splurging for nice digs. We actually didn’t see the room until later in the afternoon – since it was 12:30, we were too early to check in, so we dropped our bags and went back into town for lunch.

Ghent is pretty amazing. The town was founded on the confluence of two small rivers, and there are a few canals off the rivers as well. People use the waterways for touring and pleasure, and it adds to the charm of the town. There are about 8,127 churches (Ghent used to be very wealthy and was an important city), and there are lots of cute shops and restaurants.

After lunch and getting checked in to the hotel, we went to Ghent’s cathedral, Saint Bavo’s. St. Bavo was a seventh-century lord who, after his wife died young, donated all his wealth to the poor and became a hermit. The church is quite interesting inside. It is very vertical-feeling, with a ton of open space and a one-hundred-foot-high ceiling. The altar and pulpit are ornate, and there is a good amount of decent art in the church. There are some odd and important things in the church too.

In one chapel is a statue of Father Damien, who ministered to lepers in Hawaii in the 1800s. His statue is quite lifelike, so I kept being startled when I kept seeing it out of the corner of my eye as I looked around the church.

In about 2015, a small whale was hit by a cargo ship, and the whale died. It washed up in Ghent. What do you do with the remains of a whale? You strip it down to the skeleton and hang it in the cathedral, of course. The church is using it to tie in to the Biblical story of Jonah (and the whale). Can’t say I’ve ever seen a whale skeleton in a church before.

There is a paining of Bavo by Paul Rubens that is very good. The most important art, though, is the altarpiece The Adoration of the Mystic Lamb. This huge altar painting is by the Van Eyck brothers, and it was the first painting done in oil by a master artist (around 1425). The detail is exquisite, and based on real human bodies, and must have been shocking and startling to see when it was dedicated. It also has a mystery attached – one of the panels was stolen in 1935, and an exchange was agreed on, but before the panel was returned, the man who claimed to know where it was had a heart attack, and his last words were something to the effect of, “My office – bottom drawer, key.” They found the key, but no one has been able to find the panel, so it is still missing. The panel has been replaced by a copy, but people are still looking for the original.

It was about 5:00, and we knew we would be eating late, so we grabbed some gelato before walking to a small street at the edge of the historic district, where we attended a small church service. Looking online, Mer had found an English-speaking church (Every Nation Ghent). We went, and it was geared toward the considerable college-aged population of this university town. I’m pretty sure we were the oldest people in the room, but it was fine. We sang some songs, and heard a sermon from an Austrian woman who lives in Spain with her Filipino husband. Every Nation Ghent indeed! The people were quite friendly, and we got to chat with a young woman who is in residency for pediatric care. It is good to go to church in a different country – it helps remind you God is bigger than America, and lets you see natives in a normal setting (besides shops and museums).

From there, it was supper and home. Mer took it easy on me today, getting me back around 9:30. She probably wanted to keep me from gawking at more shop windows.

Clearly, I still have it. I had only gotten as far as Paris’ baggage claim before the first young and pretty French woman threw herself at me, even with Meredith standing there. Mer thought the woman only wanted me to grab her luggage before it went by me, but that was clearly a flimsy excuse. Sorry, ladies – this one is taken.

The first day is a long travel day, and while our travel was smoothly uneventful, from waking up in Ohio to getting into bed for a nap in Paris was about twenty-eight hours. Lesson one – make sure your hotel is easy to get to by public transportation from the airport. Our hotel is really nice, and it is in a quiet business sector, but it is south of the Seine River, while the airport is fairly far north of the city. Getting to the hotel required two Metro trains and a tram, and then a half-mile wander through a maze of streets, all on a foggy brain. I need to remember this for future travel – make the first hotel an easy one to get to.

We did get to our hotel and checked in around 5:00, and we slept until 7:00. I was in charge of today, so we walked though residential neighborhoods, which we like to do, for about thirty minutes, ending up at a crepe restaurant with a limited view of the Eiffel Tower. After a fine meal, we walked over to the Seine, where I wanted to walk along the man-made island called the Ile aux Cygnes (Swan Island). It is only about thirty feet wide, and has good views of all the river traffic. Much of the path is lined with fine mature trees, and one end of the island looks up at the Eiffel Tower, while the other end is the location of a small version of the Statue of Liberty. We had never been on the island before, and it was a mellow way to be in the heart of Paris.

After the Ile aux Cygnes, we walked back to the hotel area. I had hoped to explore a park, including the scientific balloon you can pay fifteen dollars to ride up in, but sadly, the park closed at 9:30 and we got there at 10:30. Next time.

On to Belgium tomorrow, if all goes well. Paris got an abbreviated treatment today, but it treated us right well.

Egad! A Friday near a major city, with a border crossing!

Normally, Meredith and I fly out on a Saturday, but it was much, much cheaper to fly on a Friday this time, so I took the day off. But I was quite anxious about crossing into Canada, and then having to drive from Buffalo to Toronto along what may be the most populous section of Canada, right around 5:00 on a Friday evening.

We are going to Belgium, but flying from Toronto to Paris because to fly to Brussels would have been $400-500 more than flying to Paris. Adding to the unusual nature of the flight was that our flight was scheduled to leave at 11:45 pm. At least we could sleep in at home. So of course I was up at 6:30 and Mer was up at 8:30. So much for hoping to sleep in.

The Toronto airport is about five hours away, so I figured eight hours with a lunch stop and border crossing and traffic. We ate lunch at home, so that saved time, but I was worried about Friday traffic. Add in the three hours of recommended time for international flights, and I thought we should allow eleven hours. Rounding the time, I determined we could leave at 1:00, which we managed.

Canadian border at 4:30, and we got through in ten minutes. Ah ha! Traffic galore on the Canadian side! I am wise! It cleared up after a couple of miles – it was due to construction. Somehow, passing city after city of a half-million, we sailed along, getting to the airport at 6:30, even with a snack stop.

Ah! But the airport loomed! Who knew what lengthy lines awaited us there?!  As it turned out, we got to the ticketing gate and were told we were too early, and could come back in ten minutes, which we did. They then sent us over to the business class check-in because that check-in was not busy. Security was a small wait, but not too bad. In the end, we were at the gate at 7:30, just six and a half hours after leaving our house. We were at the gate three hours before boarding. Ooops.

Supper in the airport is a fine way to spend time, especially when you are not rushed. I could not convince Meredith that I should spend time getting a massage. I guess she was stressed over the time crunch to board our flight.